Travels with the pump

MARIE: We’ve just had a long weekend in the UK – partly to see Jon’s daughter’s new house (and family and friends, of course), and partly to test out traveling with the duodopa pump. We were both mildly apprehensive. Would we be believed by airport security when we told them that Jon now has a tiny metal part inside him and can no longer go through the scanner? Would they accept that we carried all Jon’s gel form medication in hand luggage? No way would we ever let drugs go in the suitcase, a delay or misdirection of luggage with drugs doesn’t bear thinking about. Would the drugs stay cool in their special thermal bag for the duration of the journey? And would the hotel be able to keep the drugs cool for us, yet allow easy access to fresh drugs in the morning?

I am so happy and relieved to say that the answer to every one of the questions was a clear YES. Apart from having to carry the thermal bag around – which would be quiet heavy for a long trip – travels with the pump are significantly easier than travels with pills. Going across time zones? No problem. We used to try and stretch or compress drug timings on travel days to fit both with time zones, long days, and urgent bursts of activity. Now, the meds are just constantly flowing, there’s no need to plan or discuss anything, Jon just presses the lovely extra-dose button, and off we go. Put the pump on in the morning, take it off at night, and don’t worry about a thing in between. Oh, the relief. It’s wonderful to know that we’ll be able to travel by air again without any anxiety.

Two more things helped make the trip a success. It was clear on our last trip to the UK that the whole business of travel and any lack of home comforts at the destination really wears Jon out, to the point where he hasn’t the energy to enjoy the purpose of the trip. So this time we broke it up. We flew over, but instead of getting the airport train and then waiting for a ride and then having a social situation, we simply checked into the airport hotel and stayed the first night there. We’ll definitely do that again, it’s now vastly better to have two unstressful travel days rather than one demanding one.

 

And the other thing that helped was that we swallowed all pride and asked the family for help with lifts and a really comfortable place to sleep. I have regularly suggested to other carers that they should ask for help from their families instead of waiting for people to guess at how they can help, but I’ve not been good at taking my own advice. I was really quite overwhelmed at the generous help and consideration we got on this trip, the trouble they were prepared to go to in order to give Jon the best basis for having a good time. Which he most certainly did, as did I. We’ll be back, as he’s taken to saying.

By the way, it was funny to note how un-embarrassed we have both become. This was the first time the family had a chance to see the pump and Jon’s extra orifice, so he prepared to do a little show-and-tell. I’m not sure if it was discretion or a slight squeamishness on the part of his audience, but that didn’t take long at all. I guess by now Jon and I are so used to the evidence and paraphernalia of disease that we don’t think of it as anything out of the ordinary. Maybe we need a little reality check.